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Posted on Aug 20, 2013 by in Lessons Learned |

I have this discussion all the time –

“Where do you shop for Mother of the Bride dresses, that don’t look like bridesmaid dresses or grandmother dresses?”

Shopping for your MOB dress can be one of the most disheartening parts of the whole wedding planning. There just are not a lot of choices out there that don’t look like a bridesmaid dress, show a little too much skin, are too ‘poofy’, too ‘strapless’ or bare, too short, too embellished, too ‘suit-y”, or just plain ugly.

Well, dear MOB’s – fear not! You may or may not have thought of the idea that a custom made dress is not just a luxury of a by-gone-era, but a very real modern day convenience.
 There is a vast assortment of patterns out there that are more than suitable for MOB dresses. And the fabrics we have at our disposal today are unimaginable! You have your traditional silks and satins, of course, as well as the ever popular chiffon. But then there are your textured silks, brocades, printed and embellished chiffons, hammered satins, crepes, even some lovely linens,  and knits, including silk jersey, and of course an unlimited supply of gorgeous laces, in all colors of the rainbow, with sequins, or beading, or simply – lace.

I have been saving MOB patterns in my Pinterest board – here-

These are just a very few – not really even touching the surface – of what is available. For more pattern idea’s you can go  to, or here: or here: ; or here:

Eva Patterns 5941

These are just a few starting points. There are also patterns and ideas available on
If your tastes run more towards vintage styles, you can find many great patterns here:

With any of these patterns, it is usually not at all difficult to lengthen a short dress in to a long one, to add decorative embellishment where it is most needed, or change simple design details.

A dresses’ beauty is found in the style lines, the flow of the fabric, and the fabric itself, but also in how the wearer feels in it. Don’t settle for unsatisfactory dresses when you really don’t have to!